There’s just something about being a Jersey Girl that keeps me grounded. Perhaps everybody feels this way about their home state. Maybe being a Wyoming Girl is just as cool, just as delicious, just as fabulous. What I do know is this: living in Maryland during my early adult years, I quickly realized being a crab cake eating, Old Bay spicing, Natty Boh drinking girl ranks just as high as Jersey Girl greatness. Sure, they’re missing the pork roll and the beach badges, but they’ve got their own kind of loyalty they’d fight to the death to defend. This is why I consider myself mostly Jersey with a side of Old Bay. After all, I lived in Maryland for nine years and that’s a lot of time in Baltmore, hon.
Perhaps it’s embarrassing to admit, but I’ve never been to Pimlico, even after all of those years of building up my Maryland pride. Horse racing just wasn’t something I was familiar with, despite adoring an uncle who, upon his death-bed, was still talking about his racing stripes, and despite living absurdly close to Monmouth Park, our very own Jersey racetrack. It wasn’t until I got married and Paul took me to the races that I realized there was a whole lot of fun going on at the Jersey Shore that I knew nothing about.
You can be assured, I knew nothing about it. Across the board? Exacta box what? First time Lasix? I had no idea what any of it meant, but I will tell you, I won a good hundred dollars on a horse named Richie from ShopRite, and that’s only because my Dad loves ShopRite and I thought it was a good omen to bet a few dollars on him to win. It’s safe to say, I bet purely on how much I can connect with the name, then I cross my fingers, and hope my $2 long shot comes in first. But even if that doesn’t happen, the experience is what makes going to the racetrack worth all the money we are somehow always bound to lose.
On a typical day at the track, we first pack the cooler up with ice and frosty beverages. We then make our way to our favorite sub shop and top off our cooler with some delicious Jersey sub sandwiches. We call them subs here, not hoagies. No way, no how is anyone from Monmouth County eating a hoagie, unless they are visiting from South Jersey or Philadelphia, or they somehow got confused celebrating the HoagieFest at the WaWa. Next, we make sure to get to the track at least a half hour before the track opens. I wear my best pair of wedges and when the gates open, I race, just like the horses, for a picnic table by the fence. Despite my competition (men with actual sneakers and sometimes running gear), I always seem to claim a table. This becomes our home base for the rest of the day. Friends and family join us and it becomes one of the best ways to spend a summer day at the Jersey Shore.
Then there are those not so typical days at Monmouth Park. These are the special event days when we skip the subs and opt for lunch at the track. One of our favorite special event days is the Food Truck Festival. While this year it was the most crowded we’ve ever seen it, we never miss a chance at visiting one of our favorite food trucks, Toum, a New York City truck serving up delicious Lebanese cuisine.
We love the falafel sandwich, a thick, toasty wrap filled with fava beans and chickpeas, lettuce, tomato, parsley, onions, turnip pickles, and tahini sauce. If there’s a line, wait in it. It is totally worth your time and money to eat this sandwich. The best part is, you can follow Toum on Twitter and always know where to find them. Oh how I wish they’d park their truck right outside our house. Unfortunately, we only get the occasional ice cream truck rolling by and, well, that’s just not as delectable as Toum.
Monmouth Park also hosts other special events like beer and wine festivals, crab cake cook-offs, and even a day completely devoted to all things Irish. It is also a great place to spend Mother’s Day or Father’s Day, serving as a comfortable way to get the whole family together for good food and fun.
So the next time you are visiting the Jersey Shore, skip the beach and race to the track! If you need to fill your cooler with good subs, we recommend a visit to Vintage Subs on Cookman Avenue in Asbury Park, New Jersey. Order the #2 for a taste of true Jersey sub glory, but don’t hesitate to order any of their other delicious options, including their Vintage Specials, all named after famous Asbury Park landmarks.
And don’t forget to tune in to CNN tonight to watch Anthony Bourdain visit our little city by the sea. Our favorite traveler meets a Jersey Shore legendary town, rebuilding itself with the help of creative and ingenious entrepreneurs and restauranteurs who are hard at work making the city shine.
We are not your typical cruisers. We don’t own cruise wear, we cringe at the amount of food consumed at the buffet, we don’t quite get port shopping, and we will never be caught standing on or near a treadmill or running on “the track” while on vacation.
What we do love is lounge chairs, cocktails, unobstructed views, fancy dinners, and naps.
We cruise when we are tired, stressed, and completely drained from the long hours we put in at our jobs each day.
It is a relaxing escape and it’s easy. And while we love to completely immerse ourselves in other cultures and places, there are those times when we just want to be still and quiet.
There is only one cruise line we look to when we need a quick exit from our daily dose of reality:
Celebrity
Our most recent sailing, a spring break escape for a week in April, was on the Solstice Class ship, Celebrity Silhouette. Upon our arrival to the dock at Port Everglades, we were surprised with a complimentary upgrade to a Deluxe Veranda Stateroom, complete with a fruit platter and a bottle of bubbly on ice. Since we booked the most inexpensive rate available, the Guarantee Rate, we were beyond grateful for this generous gift. We will never even consider booking an inside room again. Private balconies are the only way to cruise and the best places for a much-needed afternoon nap.
Our ship sailed to several Caribbean ports: Cozumel, Mexico; Georgetown, Grand Cayman; Falmouth, Jamaica; and Labadee, Haiti. While all of these ports offered many excursions, we were perfectly content to stay on the ship with our feet in the pool, enjoying the calm left behind when the other passengers disembarked on their daily shopping and sightseeing extravaganzas. We did get a chance to swim in the beautiful turquoise waters of Labadee, a private island owned by the cruise line. We spent our day floating on beach mats and feasting at the beach barbecue.
Our evenings were spent at the back of the ship, watching the bright blue water churn as we sailed away to our next destination. We even enjoyed sinking our bare feet into the grass at the Lawn Club. Real grass on the top of a cruise ship? What will they think of next?
Our fancy dinners were spent at the Tuscan Grille, a specialty restaurant offering a variety of delicious Italian meals. Our table for two was set right up against the windows at the back of the ship, a perfect view to enjoy a romantic evening dining on incredible risottos, pastas, and a good bottle of red wine.
Of course we found time for dancing and mingling and meeting people from all over the world. We avoided the buffet as much as we could, except for the one evening we decided to bring dinner to our private balcony. We assembled a big, healthy salad, a pasta dish with sautéed fresh vegetables, and a few slices of pizza, and using our best juggling skills picked up a bottle of wine along the way. While this dinner wasn’t what we’d call fancy, it was just what we needed after a day of fun in the sun.
We’ve heard it all about cruising, everybody’s opinions and fears, from seasickness to the Norovirus. We can honestly say, we’ve never had any of these problems. Celebrity is beyond careful about germs and one of the cleanest cruise lines we’ve ever seen. The staff is always pleasant and accommodating and the food is always good. This is why we are happy to call ourselves Captain’s Club Members of Celebrity Cruise Lines. We’ve cruised on many other brands, but there is only one we come back to time and time again. From the Celebrity Century, now retired from the fleet, to the new Solstice Class of ships, we will remain loyal to the brand that makes us their celebrities, ever time.
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“We’ve Got Cheese Shops”
In July of 2010, Paul and I spent our honeymoon in Sorrento, Italy. Our hotel sat high upon a cliff overlooking the magnificent Bay of Naples, and everyday after relaxing at the pool, we would walk to town down a long, dusty, quiet, lemon-tree lined path. Occasionally, a scooter would pass us by, motor off, using only the natural force of gravity to make its way down to the bustling streets of Sorrento. It was picturesque and perfect, everything you’d wish a honeymoon to be. But the most amazing part of the entire trip was the food. It was divine.
On this trip we followed a very strict schedule: sit by the pool, walk the path down to town, indulge in southern Italian cuisine, take the shuttle bus back up, repeat. Since walking back up the path wasn’t quite as enjoyable as walking down, we always opted to take the air-conditioned bus, a faster method of getting ourselves back to our lounge chairs as quickly as possible.
One particular day after enjoying what was quite possibly the most delicious pizza we’ve ever had, Paul and I made our way to our assigned street corner to meet a crowd of people impatiently waiting in the mid-day sweltering sun for the much-anticipated air-conditioned bus.
It is amazing the things you remember; the stories you bring back from traveling that make you laugh over and over again. For the past five years, this moment has been etched in our memories, a story to be told and retold for years to come…
Since it was taking an awful long time for the bus to arrive, we struck up a conversation with an older gentleman and his wife. Maybe it was because the bus was late and they spotted our newly wedded bliss, or maybe it was because it is not everyday you expect to be standing next to a man wearing a red hat with an iconic white P in a foreign country. But here we were, just a couple of newly married Met’s fans sweating on an Italian street corner in the company of two Philly fanatics.
Of course, I was going on and on about the food and how delectable everything was, when the female Philly fanatic just shrugged and said, “Oh this is nothing. I cook like this at home. We have cheese shops in Philadelphia.”
Excuse me? Come again? Did you just say you flew all the way to Italy to get something you claim you could have gotten in Pennsylvania? Did you just come here for the views?
As you can imagine, I missed the rest of the conversation, including the obligatory marriage advice, just trying to comprehend and make sense of it all. I couldn’t possibly fathom how this Mediterranean mecca of fresh food could be easily compared to a land oozing with Cheez Whiz. It didn’t make sense, but it made me wonder.
Is Philadelphia more than just cheese steaks?
Exploring Philadelphia
Getting my New York City guy to agree to roam the streets of Philadelphia was not an easy task, but in an effort to do something different this winter, we planned a weekend getaway to explore a city we knew little to nothing about. I mean, we’ve seen the bell, Independence Hall, and the Franklin Institute, but that was pretty much the extent of our Philly knowledge. Oh, and, of course, we’ve heard they have cheese shops.
So we packed our bags and drove down to Philly on one of the coldest weekends in February. It snowed, heavily, but we explored as much as we could. Did we find Italy? Not quite. But what we did find was a new appreciation for a city that seems to have shed its cheese steak and whiz image for a far healthier alternative: vegetables.
If anything can work up an appetite, it is walking the aisles of the Reading Terminal Market. On the morning of our arrival, Paul and I gawked at the plethora of food, including cheese, that was available for sale in this massive culinary warehouse. While we love to take in the smells and sights of these kinds of places, we’re not much for eating on the go. In our opinion, a meal should be savored slowly over good conversation. Therefore, we resisted the temptation to eat at the market and, after quite a bit of walking, found ourselves at Strangeloves for lunch.
We fell in love with this adorable little place after one bite. We started with an appetizer of beer boiled peanuts which were the best boiled peanuts we’ve ever had. That’s saying a lot when one of us consumed more than plenty of boiled peanuts in his college days at the University of South Carolina.
Next, we both inhaled the smoked tempeh muffuletta. This sandwich was phenomenal and would have immediately fooled any carnivore into thinking it couldn’t possibly be missing the meat. But yes, my friends, this sandwich was completely vegan and utterly delicious.
We enjoyed this cozy meal while watching the snow fall rapidly onto the streets and sidewalks of Philadelphia. We found this the perfect opportunity to try out Uber, and within a few minutes, a black car arrived to conveniently and carefully navigate us through the snow back to the warmth of our hotel.
Where We Stayed-Le Meridien Philadelphia
As Gold Starwood Preferred Guests, we are eager to explore all that the SPG Brand has to offer. We especially love when we find hotels with character, and Le Meridien Philadelphia is one of those places with a beauty all its own. A former YMCA transformed into SPG luxury, Le Meridien Philadelphia is warm and inviting and particularly charming. Situated just steps from city hall, the building is timeless, complete with roaring fireplaces in the lobby. It was the perfect base for our weekend getaway and we highly recommend staying here if you are looking for something more luxurious and unique than the typical modern hotel room. It can be inexpensive too. We nabbed a two night stay here using our AAA discount for a very low price. Do your research and you can find some amazing deals.
Dinner at V Street
Paul always laughs at me because, most of the time, if I’m looking at my phone, chances are I’m reading something about food. I like to know my options when I travel, and I’m well read when it comes to where to eat. One of the places I’ve read a lot about is a Philadelphia restaurant called Vedge. I’ve been stalking Vedge on Facebook for almost a year now, maybe longer. I never knew when I was ever going to get a chance to eat there, but it didn’t stop me from drooling over their Facebook photos here and there. Right before our trip to Philly, I was keeping tabs on Vedge’s new restaurant, a venue featuring vegan street food called V Street. After much hemming and hawing over whether we would eat at Vedge or V Street, Paul and I decided to give V Street a try and save Vedge for another time.
Paul and I landed two seats at the bar of this tiny, bustling yet totally charming restaurant. We watched the snowflakes fall while people trudged down the sidewalks under umbrellas. We shared well prepared small plates of Peruvian fries and a small pizza of smoked beets and sauerkraut remoulade. If ever there was a duo who could influence the world to eat their veggies, it is the husband and wife team responsible for Vedge and V Street. What they are doing with vegetables is beyond anything I’ve ever imagined and most likely, taste far better than any vegetables your parents made you eat.
We’ll Be Back…
One weekend in Philly is not nearly enough time to explore everything the city has to offer. It is even less time when your trip is hindered by a snowstorm. We made the most of it, and while we never quite found the Italy the Philly fanatic spoke of, we didn’t really care to find it nor were we looking. Our new-found fondness of Philadelphia has intrigued us to return during the warmer months. We look forward to checking out some of the parks and tasting some of the other amazing food that’s coming out of this city. We will keep you updated.
Until then, we urge you…no we plead with you… to look beyond the cheese steak and explore more than just Pat and Geno’s. You never know just what you’ll find…
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Yesterday, we began our day quietly sipping coffee at America’s Cup and ended the day with an order of pasta fagioli and a Dizzy Dame sandwich from The Speakeatery. In between, I got my locks pampered at Hot Mess Salon while Paul took his camera out in the cold morning air to grab a photo. Later, we enjoyed our favorite Firecracker Roll at Taka’s new and trendy Cookman location. There we met and talked to Taka himself, our first time ever having the pleasure to meet him and tell him how much we adore his food and his new, beautiful restaurant. Next, we made our way over to the grand opening of the Asbury Park Festhalle and Biergarten, and somehow, managed to grab a Bavarian pretzel and a bar stool, despite the growing crowd of people rushing in to check the place out. Afterwards, we met the famous photographer Bob Gruen, watched a documentary on his amazing and noteworthy career, and attended a special reception at the Art629 gallery, all through a special invitation from Asbury Underground. Yes, we were on the guest list.
While we may enjoy Asbury Park much more when the air is warm and our toes are in the sand, our love for this beach town thrives in all seasons, even during the bitter cold days of winter. As you can see, it was just another beautiful day in our little city by the sea…
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With big French plans in our future, we took it easy this winter break and took a short trip to Baltimore, Maryland and Alexandria, Virginia. In Baltimore, I got to wear my Raven’s purple and Paul got to see Connor Shaw make his rookie start for the Cleveland Browns. It was one of those things where the stars aligned with the moon and the Baltimore Ravens, and as a result, Paul was able to show his Gamecock’s pride and cheer on the Browns (quietly, of course) at Pickle’s Pub. We celebrated with a very casual dinner, a post-game salad and a Flag pizza at Joe Squared. In the morning, we hit up the Golden West in Hampden for our favorite vegan breakfast burritos (see Baltimore’s Best Breakfast), and then made our way to D.C.’s cutest little neighbor, Alexandria.
In Alexandria, we enjoyed our very first Kimpton hotel stay at the Lorien Hotel and Spa. We highly recommend this beautiful property, not only for the modern accommodations and excellent service, but also for their amazing fire pit, complimentary wine reception in the lobby, and the Brabo Tasting Room, their onsite restaurant (see my Bravo for Brabo post to read all about my love for Robert Wiedmaier). We also joined the Kimpton Karma Rewards Program, as we are very intrigued by their amenities and hope to book a few more stays at some of their properties.
Today we say hello to a new year of travel, photography, and writing. We also say goodbye to Paul’s Photography Blog. We decided it is time for us to consolidate to just one blog and focus on making Bringing Down the White Picket Fence the best it can be in 2015.
So where will we travel this year? Follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram for updates. We’ve got another 365 days of amazing possibilities, and while it’s not likely we’ll get to dine with Anthony Bourdain or make a career out of this blog (although we’d love to), we do have some incredible plans in the works. We are more eager than ever to explore this fascinating planet and document each journey along the way. Join us as we wander around new cities, revisit some of our favorites, and fall more in love with Paris and Asbury Park.
Happy New Year!
-Paul and Michelle
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I remember sitting on the edge of the South Rim of the Grand Canyon one early July morning, coffee in hand, while the sun made its way above the jagged rocks and ledges, falling in love with the colors, the deep reds and oranges, the beautiful glow of the American West. With the elk grazing nearby, I couldn’t imagine a more peaceful place on Earth. In a setting like this, it is easy to put aside all of your worries, your troubles, your fears. When you are here, you are thankful, for each breath, for each ray of sunshine that warms your face, for every minute you are able to just sit and escape from the dizzying rush of everyday life.
Today we give thanks for family, friends, food, and for all that we’ve achieved and accomplished each year. This Thanksgiving let’s give thanks for this beautiful country we call home. It’s time we focus on all that is good here because, believe it or not, good does exist. While disturbing media footage continues to stream across our television sets and our news feeds, it’s easy to forget what an amazing country we live in, a land painted in an array of gorgeous colors, an easily forgotten backdrop in our constant race through life.
Nature has sculpted an America we should be proud of. So take a moment to give thanks for all of this. “This land is our land…”
Celebrate it.
Cherish it.
Capture it.
Give thanks for it.
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Raindrops are more beautiful in Paris.
On dreary, chilly days like today, I yearn for these images.
Paul captured some of my most vivid and gorgeous memories: the elegance that never escapes Paris, even beneath a dull gray sky.
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